What does this all mean? Love is where we see a person in all their uniqueness and specialness. It’s not something that we deserve or ask for but it simply comes in the form of grace.
When a person realises that they feel indispensable and irreplaceable to us, their will to do more and be more for us is accelerated.
First they derive a feeling of trust from us and thereafter, a trust in themselves.
In trusting them we assist in bringing about a feeling of true independence and creativity in thoughts and deeds and assist that person on the way to freedom and responsibility.
A motivated person projects this resonance whereas a demotivated person feels low on confidence and is uninspired. However, we all experience low and challenging times in our lives which does not mean that we have reached a sell by date. This is when the intention of “love” acts as a magical force in bringing about a feeling of “responsibleness”.
Responsibleness differs from responsibility, that which is learnt from our childhood and our mentoring. Responsibleness encompasses a feeling of self responsibility – to be the best and do the best in life. This means that when I am not acting lovingly towards myself, there is a disconnect in what I am doing and in what I am achieving. A feeling of meaningless and unfulfillment follows. That hole in the soul. For the true meaning of life is to do a task and do it well for the extended good of others.
We have that special somebody that is relying of us, especially if that be ourselves!!